NO MARRIAGE

Here’s a site that men in this country should read: NoMarriage.com. It’s purposefully inflammatory but I believe it contains some truths. Some highlights:

A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase

White ‘career’ American chicks are the bottom of the barrel marriage-wise.

Foreign women from South America, Eastern Europe, and Asia are at the top. Only guys who travel (in other words, guys who are successful and ambitious enough to travel a lot) find these. But they never, ever go back.

And…

American women..
– highest maintenance (I’ve never heard of a foreign bride demanding her husband buy expensive house & cars)
– fattest in the world
– most likely to cheat
– highest rate of divorce (60% – US-US marriages; 20% – US-foreign marriages)
– largest payout in divorce court (you’ll be ass-raped for everything you earned, plus most of what you will earn for years to come)
– bitchiest
– most likely to nag constantly
– most likely to believe in feminism and “equality”
– most likely to hate men
– spend least amount of time with her children
– worst at cooking and cleaning
– fucked & chucked by tons of guys before tricking you into marriage

Almost all my friends with American girlfriends constantly complain to me about their selfish, cold ‘me-me-me’ attitude. It’s a shame really, since there are many beautiful American women. The only thing I can suggest from my experience and the experience of others is to date American women in their prime before the massive weight gain sets in, and then pick a family-oriented foreign bride to bear your children.

52 thoughts on “NO MARRIAGE

  1. Dating Hell Diarist

    Never fear, DCB, I think most American women will be fine with not marrying you, or anyone else with the mental acuity to discern how we are all fat, faceless, unindivuated, golddigging whores as this website suggest.

  2. LaLa

    Yawn. Seriously? Haven’t we read this post (with little degree of variation) AT LEAST 80 times on this site?

  3. Marc

    I heart broad sweeping generalizations.

    I’ve heard a lot of guys talking about foreign women and how they’re better than American women.

    For whatever reason, it really makes my blood boil. These issues that are brought up, are pratically primal. All women have the ability to be as horrid as the above description, they all have the ability to be cool as hell.

    This entire mindset (I understand a lot of it is satire) is indicative of peoples view on relationships.

    To loosely generalize, there are men who do not desire marriage, their sole desire is to hop from hole to hole hardly giving themselves time to dry. They mock and make fun of guys in relationships because those guys “just don’t get it”. They see it as wasting your life away. They might get lonely on nights they don’t take a woman home or none of their regular sexual partners are available. They quench this loneliness with porn, masturbation and a solid night sleep in their bed. No woman to hog the blanke ot pillow.

    Then you have the guy who can’t be alone. He’s always in a relationship with a woman who he has to bow to. On ocassion there might be a symbiotic relationship where he’s not whipped by his woman. This type of woman is rare. I digress. He doesn’t know what a one night stand is like because he’s never had one, but he’ll be the first to tell you it’s not his style. This stems from the inability to get a woman home the night he meets her. He’ll mock and make fun of the manwhore because he “just doesn’t get it”, after all, there’s more to life than just sex right? This is the guy who gets married, then ends up getting a divorce because he got married too quickly and realized he can’t live with his emotionally dominating wife. Has nightmares about his friends taunts which follow the pattern of, “Balls in wifes purse”.

    The loser couple. The guy and the girl are physical and emotional trainwrecks. Both ugly, both pathetic in their lifestyle. They get married because they have no self esteem, and no will to change their loser, anti-social status. They never get a divorce and beget other anti-social ugly kids. When they have sex, it’s eyes closed and dreaming of brad pitt, jessica simpson, or any other person of high caliber that they will never have.

    Oh, there are so many more categories to lump people into. We could go on for hours.

    This all started because I’m angry about people always tearing down American women as fat, lazy, gold digging worthless whores. I think there are women like that, I also think there are plenty who are not like that.

  4. nabeel

    sorry to say this, but I think we need to get used to it. the whole westernization (globalization?) thing going on in this world seems to rub in a materialistic effect on everyone, not just women, but men included.

    and not only that, but SOME of these “family-oriented foreign brides” that you’re thinking of may have ulterior motives of her own … like for example, trying to get into the U.S. by way of visa or a green card… and she can obtain that by marrying an American. and they know this. just be careful about this kind of thing.

    to be truely sure that she’s not using you as a ticket to get into America, check out her mother before marrying. if she’s a good person who did a good job raising the kids, you can bet that her daughters would be the same way because they have strong family values.

    my take on this guy who put up the nomarriage site, I find that he is surprisingly bitter towards western women for a guy who has NEVER married!

  5. Sudamericana

    ?Foreign women from South America, Eastern Europe, and Asia are at the top?

    I am not sure about the truth in these facts you mention, nor in me being marriage material, but hey,it always feels good to be at the top πŸ˜‰

  6. Anonymous

    When I write my diatribe on the shortcomings, insensitivity and utter selfishness of American men, I’ll send the post. It’s gonna take awhile to write that one though.

    Case in point: number of American deadbeat fathers. You have no idea how the other half lives.

  7. DCB Post author

    The one that makes me laugh:

    “- fucked & chucked by tons of guys before tricking you into marriage”

    :laugh:

  8. Liz

    boooooooooooooooring. how many times have we read things of this nature on this site???

    next.

  9. Anonymous

    say what you want, but many of these things are true…obviously some things are blown up, but still, there is alot of truth to this post. A whole lot. Good one DCB.

  10. Aja

    That is pretty hilarious. There is no appropriate response here other thanks for updating your blog, I’ve had enough of worldnews and your puppy rental service.

  11. Anonymous

    I live in an area where a lot of men have foreign (mostly asian) wives and while some of the above fits, the men have a whole different set of problems. For instance, most American women don’t invite 15 members of their extended families come to live with you because they all want to come over, get sponsored and become citizens. You put your foot down and refuse to let all of them come live in your 2 bedroom house? Well, luckily for her she’s learned enough English to say “domestic abuse” and when the man gets arrested on a bs terroristic threatening charge she initiates divorce proceedings and gets to keep the house and sponsor her entire family. Yeah, foreign women are great.

  12. Liz

    I must say that his statement of 80% of American women developing postpartum depression and that the majority of American women having histrionic and narcissistic disorders made me laugh. HARD. I wonder where the hell he looked that up. Or maybe…he just pulled it out of his ass.

    If one is going to make such an outrageous statement such as this person has, one should also provide evidence/sources to back up their statement.

    What a stupid fucking tool.

  13. Anonymous

    Cynics are never truly happy. If you had ever been truly in love, you would not be writing this. You should have titled it “Worst DC Blog Ever.”

    Didn’t we learn it’s never ok to stereotype? Some of this shit might be true, but only a truly unhappy person would be such a cynic as to make a generalization of all American women, a horrible generalization at that. Here’s hypocrisy at its worst: men who want to get laid, but then slam women as being “fucked & chucked by tons of guys.” Women need to stop giving it up and buy vibrators, because this is what we’re getting in return.

  14. Anonymous

    Oh and one more thing DCB, when you meet a new girl you actually like, do you tell her about this website?

    I doubt the occasion has arisen, but if it did, I doubt even more that you would want a decent woman to know that you’re written this garbage. Hypocrite.

  15. Anonymous

    The sexual revolution cracks me up. I wonder how many people anticipated the arrival of a world where newly liberated women secure in their sexuality could look forward to being ‘fucked and chucked.’

  16. Anonymous

    So many hating sluts, and any guys that actually agree with these women are just whipped anyways

  17. DCB Post author

    “I doubt even more that you would want a decent woman to know that you?re written this garbage. Hypocrite.”

    You’re an idiot if you think normal girls really give a shit. If they do then it’s good I find out early that they are naggy and not worth my time

  18. jermaine propane

    hah i have been saying this stuff for years, every american guy i tell thinks I?m nuts (but of course those guys never have any first hand experience). after i dated both types of women, and seeing how my sister is. i would never wed an american women who was raised with an american culture.

    this is just my generalization

  19. christine

    Don’t even get me started on the REST of this post, but I took special offense to this:

    – highest rate of divorce (60% – US-US marriages; 20% – US-foreign marriages)

    So…women are solely to blame for the divorce rate in the U.S.? Wow, I thought that most of these women are married to men, who might – gasp – actually be initiating or contributing to the demise of some of these marriages.

    Part of the reason for the high U.S. divorce rate is because the laws here allow it. In a lot of less evolved countries, nothing short of death could get you out of a marriage. Though I think that the high U.S. divorce rate is a shame, and people should take marriage more seriously before they get into it, thank goodness abused spouses of both sexes have an out. The divorce rate is also fueled by the fact that women here can work and support themselves. In some countries, that is not encouraged or allowed, so women stay in bad marriages because if they didn’t, they and their children would starve.

    And as for the rest… as a DC-area woman who owns property and her own car and paid for them herself, takes care of her body (and plans to do so after marriage), cooks and cleans and who treats her dates with respect… I can only hope that in my continued search for a nice man to marry, I don’t encounter too many men with your attitude. Feel free to keep dating the foreign women, so women like me don’t waste our time.

  20. DCB Post author

    “I can only hope that in my continued search for a nice man to marry, I don?t encounter too many men with your attitude. Feel free to keep dating the foreign women, so women like me don?t waste our time.”

    This is what I mean by american women. The arrogant attitude sucks

  21. christine

    Hmmm…”arrogant attitude?”

    I’d call it self-esteem.

    Or maybe self-respect.

    Or perhaps confidence.

    Or…a healthy outlook on life and dating?

    Or…an unwillingness to settle for someone who would rather be with an unequal partner?

    Eh, if you see that as arrogance, so be it. you say “potato,” I say “po-tah-to” and all that.

    (Actually I wouldn’t say “po-tah-to.” That’s pretentious. And possibly arrogant.)

    –C

  22. sarah

    All this proves is that American men are stupid…because even if this is all true the majority of American men still marry American women.

  23. Spaniard

    Great post bro, yeah it’s a bit over the top, but the truth is there. I can be hopeful and say there are exceptions, but most American women i’ve dated/encountered fall in some or all of those categories.

    American women strive to be independent, but instead turn cold in the process. It’s part of the culture, especially the serious “career” women. American women are materialistic by nature, expecting gifts and placing a high value on the carat of their diamonds.

    And what’s the deal with so many women on anxiety/depression medicine? I understand PMS, but it seems to be a cultural phase. Lexapro, valium, prozac, etc.

    Of course, American men are assholes too, but not being American, I can’t speak for them.

  24. James

    I love how the women (err…womyn? What the heck do those stupid broads call themselves these days?) got all uppity about it, which just kinda reinforced it all.

    You’d think a really genuinely great woman would be embarassed by all the sad examples around them, instead of trying to defend them.

  25. Sean

    Wonderful site. Speaks the hard truth which is hard to come by these days. Especially when conversing with brainwashed American “women”.

  26. jenk

    Now, I’m a psychologist and don’t advocate medicating the world. However…perhaps the reason so many women are on anxiety and depression medication is because of societal expectations. Hm…let’s see…we are expected to:
    -have a meaningful, high paying career
    -bear children…take care of said children (help with homework/ferry them to practices, etc.)
    -charity work…if not charity work, at least the PTA
    -cook and clean the home (sorry fellas, but…it’s just a lie if you say you help do that)
    -be fantastic in bed
    -maintain a beautiful body so you don’t have an affair

    While the men have to have a career. Period. It’s okay if they get fat and lazy and don’t clean and don’t help with the kids, etc etc. It’s is absolutely BIZARRE to think that an intelligent woman would except this fate for herself and be happy with it.

  27. Anonymous

    Marxism bitter ambivalently dinnerware tinkle devastating!sneered?… Thanks!!!

  28. Anonymous

    Ha. How silly you little boys are. I am from Eastern Europe and I married an American man so now I have an education, an excellent career and still I am happy to be lady and dress nicely. I make a lot of money because in the end I live for myself. We are all using you, that is the joke! We don’t care. Difference is that American women stupid enough to be honest about it.

  29. John

    I appear to be the only one here who has actually purchased and read this guy’s book. The book is very good, and I would have to agree with everything in his book. He teaches you what to expect from a wife, why you get it from non-western women, and exactly how to spot future problems with women. I highly recommend it – it’s worht the 10 bucks.

    Marc,

    First of all, don’t write “I digress” when you write. Just digress, and let the substance of what you’re saying speak for itself; we’ll get the picture. It would be like me writing “New Paragraph” before each new paragraph.

    Secondly, in response to “For whatever reason, it really makes my blood boil”. The reason it makes your blood boil is two-fold: 1) You have never dated a non-western woman, and 2) You are gay. Only a gay person would write the things you’ve written, and you’re almost writing with a lisp. Can we get a check on this, please? Be truthful…

    Liz,

    Writing “What a stupid fucking tool.” in a discussion board is evidence itself of histrionic disorder. It’s called ‘projecting’. Self awareness is the starting point for self help, and I recommend it. It’s the truth that always stings the worst.

    Anonymous

    “Didn?t we learn it?s never ok to stereotype? …Here?s hypocrisy at its worst: men who want to get laid, but then slam women as being ‘fucked & chucked by tons of guys.'”

    This was written by a woman who’s been fucked and chucked. That is why she won’t even write her name, even though the name would still be anonymous enough. The shame is just too great. It is always the truth that really stings, and thus provokes anger. As for stereotypeing, school claims to teach you not to pre-judge. What school actually does is teach people not to judge. Judgement is a necessary defence mechanism for survival and a natural tool for learning. It is loss of judgement that has gotten America where it is today. There is absolutely nothing wrong with judgement.

    By the way, you can see the attitudes in women’s face expressions, the way they talk, walk, carry themselves, what they wear, and the decisions they make. That is not pre-judgement. Just learn to read the signs, that’s all. It is ‘awareness’.

    Christine,

    “Hmmm?’arrogant attitude?’
    I?d call it self-esteem. Or maybe self-respect. Or perhaps confidence. Or?a healthy outlook on life and dating?”

    Arrogance is not healthy. Many people mistake arrogance with confidence. Confident people do not know they are confident – they just are. Confidence is knowing that there is much you do not know and doing the best with what you do know while learning as much as you can. Arrogance is believing that what you don’t know doesn’t matter, of which it appears, you are a victim.

    If you know you are confident, you are arrogant.

    jenk

    “It?s is absolutely BIZARRE to think that an intelligent woman would except this fate for herself and be happy with it”

    Seems you’ve hit the nail on the head. You’ve actually provided an entirely solid argument and full-proof conclusion that Western women are in fact, Bizarre and unhappy.

    Also, I doubt you are a psychologist, as no educated person who had to write papers and thesises would switch persona from “I’m a psychologist” to “We are expected to…” Are you writing as a learned psychologist or a bitter Western woman?

    Then again, even doctors who graduate last are still doctors.

    Anonymous

    “Ha. How silly you little boys are. I am from Eastern Europe and I married an American man so now I have an education”

    Whoever wrote this is not from Eastern Europe. Very bad fake accent – this person has not been exposed to people of different cultures. Might even be a gay guy.

    ***

    So let’s get to the substance of it all. Let’s put our money where our mouths are. Time to take a poll – and be honest!

    Girls, now that you have expressed your opinions against nomarriage.com (even though you probably haven’t read the book), let’s see how close to home we are. (Anyone is welcome to answer) Please answer these questions:

    1)Are you a westernized woman?
    2)# men slept with?
    3)Height?
    4)Weight in lbs.?
    5)# of husbands?
    6)# of divorces?
    7)Have you ever owned your own or drove your husband’s SUV?
    8)Did you receive an alimony or child support judgement from a court?
    9)# men REALLY slept with, as opposed to the lie you told in question #2 (BTW, Don’t change your #2 answer!!)?
    10)How many children do you have?
    11)Are you currently married?
    12)Have you ever taken mood-altering drugs?
    13)Do you regularly see a psychologist?

    So let’s stop with all these opinions and let the facts speak for themselves, please. Let the polling begin.

    Girls, if you want to write a comment, make sure youanswer these questions, otherwise we’ll assume the worst, and your credibility will be shot.

  30. Steve

    Liz:
    I must say that his statement of 80% of American women developing postpartum depression and that the majority of American women having histrionic and narcissistic disorders made me laugh. HARD. I wonder where the hell he looked that up. Or maybe?he just pulled it out of his ass.

    If one is going to make such an outrageous statement such as this person has, one should also provide evidence/sources to back up their statement.

    What a stupid fucking tool.

    Liz: Women don’t realize they have personality disorders. It’s very hard for psychologists to determine it. you can only figure it out from observing them for a long time. I have noticed a lot of women, especially in DC, have personality disorders at worst, and at beast are incredibly self absorbed

  31. shantanu

    I am a computer engineer in US I found this site funny but very true ..but just targeting american women is unfair its true of whole”feminazi” era across globe..I actually like american women (2 I had relationships with) they dont want to marry unless you too also hee hee its easier to parallely keep ur options open and leave it in the middle as you please

  32. shantanu

    I think marriage is somethin unecesary unless you really love without expectation be sure if it is so..also having womens opinion count as ultimate i by hindsight can say is foolish we all have a purpose in life it depends how much it revolves around someone else having an influence on it ..its an individual decision

  33. Ed

    women seem to be very angry…why??but I personally feel women fucked n chucked by guys are indeed whores my GF could never do it before we were married..

  34. helen

    1)Are you a westernized woman?
    very much
    2)# men slept with?
    5
    3)Height?
    5 feet
    4)Weight in lbs.?
    170
    5)# of husbands?
    3
    6)# of divorces?
    2
    7)Have you ever owned your own or drove your husband?s SUV?
    always drove my mans..i dont work
    8)Did you receive an alimony or child support judgement from a court?
    ofcourse
    9)# men REALLY slept with, as opposed to the lie you told in question #2 (BTW, Don?t change your #2 answer!!)?
    hee hee 21
    10)How many children do you have?
    0 i m independent
    11)Are you currently married?
    kind of
    12)Have you ever taken mood-altering drugs?
    every tuesday
    13)Do you regularly see a psychologist?
    every sunday

  35. s

    Ha. How silly you little boys are. I am from Eastern Europe and I married an American man so now I have an education, an excellent career and still I am happy to be lady and dress nicely. I make a lot of money because in the end I live for myself. We are all using you, that is the joke! We don’t care. Difference is that American women stupid enough to be honest about it.
    >>
    this isn’t b.s.

    this reflects exactly what they think. that’s the problem. I don’t argue with his evaluation of american women (the most exaggerated in their selfishness/brattyness/sluttyness being jewish girls), eastern european girls aren’t so hot either. If you want to meet them go to a strip club (haha).

  36. Scorpion

    to the last poster, you are an ugly cunt. You are not a real Eastern European women.

    I have been to Slovakia, Czech Republic, Poland, Hungary, Romania, and Russia, and the women were very beautiful and friendly. I rarely felt used.

    In the USA women will use men, because they are cheats and liars.

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