I let Sally do as she pleases because she is a good writer with excellent ideas. Since I trust her judgement, there is no need for me to edit her. She is posting on my blog because I agree with the things she says.
I had advance notice that she would drop something about Kelly that trended negative. While I do not condone personal attacks on friends of mine, I did not voice any objections to her.
There are niches within the blog world where certain bloggers are cozy with other bloggers. When these relationships change, as they often do, they impact other existing relationships. It’s part of a natural process.