It’s Friday night and a single girl is getting ready to go out with her girlfriends. She hops out of the shower and first works on her hair, making it nice and pretty for the horny club guys. Then she sits in front of the mirror for one hour to do make-up (hopefully not too much to bring back circus memories of my childhood). After that she starts looking through her closet for that perfect summer outfit, settling on a cute tank top and skirt – an ensemble that is sure to arouse most guys. She’s looking good, and now it’s time for the shoes. She looks in her closet through the hundreds of pairs she has, thinking, debating, finally deciding on… flip flops. :huh:
Flip flop abuse has to stop… now. This is no joke ladies: you DO NOT look good in flip flops… EVER. Absolutely no guy thinks you look good in them, and please don’t say you “don’t care” what guys think. You know you care and we know you care, or else you’d be going out everyday in something that is actually comfortable (granny panties and a moo-moo).
And now there is news that girls wore flip flops to see the President. If seeing the President isn’t a good reason to wear shoes, then there is no hope for these girls ever.
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What happends if the girl is hot?? I would let her slide.
I take it you are just referring to when a girl goes out wearing something nice and not in general, right?
If you are just referring to when we girls go to a club, bar, etc. then I agree with you. It is tacky to be dressed in something really nice and then be wearing your 2 for $5 Old Navy flip flops.
However, I see nothing wrong with wearing them casually, such as to class, to the grocery store, or to the beach. My Reef flip flops are the softest most comfortable things ever, and I’ll wear them places where they are appropriate, such as the places I have mentioned above.
I am sorry, this has got to be the most ridiculous thing ever. CPMC wrote something about this a while back that made them sound like grown up versions of catty junior high kids saying what is cool and what is not.
I simply cannot believe that this matters to you. What is happening to men in this country when WOMEN’S FOOTWEAR will play a definitive roll in what men find attractive.
I agree J.P. but still what happends if the woman is hot? Also with pretty feet?
If you are looking at the girl’s feet and not her face, then you have a problem (and if she doesn’t have a pleasant face, what makes you think her feet will be nicer?). :p
I wear flip flops when I go out. But that’s like going out to a bar just chilling and dancing (and my flip flops have some kind of flair to it, not just plain cheapie ones), not out out where I’m all dressed up. The way I see it, I would much rather go out in comfortable shoes than complain and bitch all night about how my heels are killing me. Which would guys prefer: comfort or bitching about shoes?
Flip flops are for on and off metro and all other casual duties.
I NEVER wear heels to a club, for the very reason that Michelle stated. That and I’m more of the raver type than the clubber type, so I try to stick to places with no dress code. I have more fun when I can dance freely. I personally cannot dance in flip flops, it’s just hard for me. I just wear them out to the store or to class (when I was in school).
Michelle, you also bring up another good point. If a person wears NICE flip flops out (and there is such a thing as a nice pair of flip flops) and not the plain cheap looking rubber ones, that’s cool too.
I still stand by my statement that I think it’s tacky when I see someone with a really nice outfit and cheap flip flops on. But it’s their choice.
It’s whatever really. I guess some of us are more shallow than others.
i wear flip flops =(
I do too, don’t worry. We can “not look good” in our flip flops together.
I was having a discussion about flip flops the other day. My take? They are here to stay. Think about it. Flip flops became very “trendy” a few years back. Obviously though, they aren’t just a trend since they’ve managed to hang around for so long. Flip flops are going to be comparable to jeans. Jeans came around as a trend and never went away. IMO, same with flip flops.
Although I don’t know about wearing them to a club unless they are the “nice flip flops”, I think you’ll have to get used to the gals wearing them DCB.
If you’re showing leg – to be sexy – keep ’em in the closet.
Who wears short shorts
dcb, i see what you’re saying but if i’m going to be honest here, i have to say that i’m not going to stop wearing them
i love my rainbows, they became an addiction in college (i have four pairs) and i certainly wear them out sometimes – if it’s just a jeans & baby t kinda night…
also, how about taking down the extremely unflattering picture? (please!) :shy:
flip-flops make you look like nasty white-trash rednecks with or without the rhinestones. stop wearing them. no one thinks they look good but you.
sara.. lol it looks like you’re about to say something that starts with an F
Unflattering Sara? Do you see the shirt you’re wearing?
Don’t play it off.
DCB – did this pic inspire you for this post? Those flip-flops were loaned to me from a very nice lady since I didn’t realize there was a hiking portion to our adventure that day and i was wearing cute little lime green wedges – not so good for hiking.
You sure it’s really flip-flops you don’t like, or feet in general?
Listen, it’s not even about them being “here to stay” I mean- from a male point of view there is only a negligible distinction between the actual construction “shoes” women wear and flip-flops in the first place. IT’S NOT A BIG DEAL.
Flip-flops are not like wearing a backpack on the Metro…
And, for the record, I think it was Capo who discussed MEN wearing flip-flops, to which most of us disagreed with him. However, we do not think MEN should be wearing Adidas flops unless they play soccer…for a living.
But, DCB, Aja up above makes a good point. Flops on girls are ok for casual stuff and walking to work. But, you are right, probably not that cool to go out AT NIGHT TO A CLUB with them on…for either sex.
Forgive me for not realizing the context of your site’s previous remarks with regards to flip-flops as well as the authorship.
As for as the back pack thing– the two situations are not exactly parallel, you are right. I’ll admit I don’t completely agree with you- but I will stay on topic for this site and make my comments on your post on your site.
For the record– I agree that if you are wearing flip flops to a night club, you’re probably pretty lazy.
Why is everyone anti-flip flops? Jeez…
Not all flip flops are cheap K-Mart ones! There are some really nice well-made ones as well.
If it goes with her outfit or even if she feels confident and attractive in them…you should let it be. I mean, are you seriously kidding me with this? They are shoes!
If you don’t want to date a girl because she chooses to wear flip flops on a date with you…she is clearly better off!
I seriously doubt that everytime you walk out the house you are setting fashion trends, my friend.
Flip flops are fine at a party, stupid out on the town.
Platform flip flops (ie, anything thicker than a half inch) are never, ever ok. You are a clueless mall rat nitwit if you wear these abominations.
Oh yeah – to the person above who said something stupid like “are we still in high school?” – well. Apparently you’re dressing like we are, yes.
Oh yeah – and whoever said they look at a girl’s face not her shoes; A woman’s style indicates her taste and sensibility. If a total model is dressed like an asshole – well. It’s no wonder she had made the unfourtunate choice of going home with you, is it?
Flip-flops are comparable to heels. My ex constantly complained about how much her feet hurt from wearing flip-flops constantly, yet would never put on a pair of sneakers.
On a brighter side though, this post reminded me of a funny scene from “it’s All Gone Pete Tong.”
“I could stare at a flip-flop for hours.” 😛
Give me a break. Get over your social conditioning people. OMG SHES NOT WEARING THE RIGHT SHOES SO SHE MUST BE LAZY/HOMELY/SLUTY
I wouldn’t wear flipflops to a club because I don’t like my toes scuffed or broken and I know I would stub my own friggin toe.
we call them “slaps,” howlies
DCB- try to shove your calloused feet into a pair of kitten heels for ONE HOUR and your ass will be running to Old Navy to buy a pair of flip flops in every color.
They HURT. Walking 5 blocks in them = immense pain. Hence the flops.
“Give me a break. Get over your social conditioning people. OMG SHES NOT WEARING THE RIGHT SHOES SO SHE MUST BE LAZY/HOMELY/SLUTY”
Whoa, you’re blowing my mind with your anti-establishment attitude. Come back later when you’ve got a job, hippie.
Do you prefer heels with a mini to a Nats game – or flip flops?
Flip Flops. The new “f” word.
are we really talking about flip-flops? that’s not part of my criteria for finding a woman attractive.
I’ve never noticed a woman’s choice in footwear. Too pre-occupied with her uhh…personalities.
hey james, when you talk to a woman.. whatever you do, don’t look down. :laugh:
Nabeel: But there’s some good stuff down there too :banana:
damn james, you’re such a horn dog lol
Nabeel: I meant her choice in socks.
I agree, Flip Flops are not flattering when out on a date with anyone. And when I was single (now married for over 15 years) I always checked out a woman from HEAD TO FOOT. If she was wearing flip flops it was most often a turn off from this guys standpoint. And don’t get me wrong, Flip Flops have their place, at the beach or maybe even a walk in the park, but not for restaurants or other establishments and I concur that they DEFINITELY SHOULD NOT BE WORN TO HIGH SOCIETY type fumctions or MEETING THE PRESIDENT! Nor should they be worn to job interviews and I’ve seen many a woman wear flip flops to job interviews, definitely NOT a smart move if you are really striving for the particular position. And flip flops have no business in the work place, especially in restaurants and I’ve seen waitresses believe it or not wearing flip flops or sandals, when I encounter this I turn around and exit the establishment.
Again, flip flops are fine for the beach, a walk in the park or walking the dog in my opinion, but not for everywhere else.
A Native Floridian in Florida where flip flops are more the normal shoe than anything else.
the feet are sexy. and flip flops show the feet…
There are lots of women with cute feet that do and should wear flip flops – absolutely nothing wrong with it. It says something about a girl being carefree. Many women know they have cute feet and purposely attract attention to them by slapping their flip flops around!
Well I too am a Native Floridian and Flip Flops seem to be the major shoe of choice in Florida both woman and guys wear them everywhere, bar scenes, clubs, movies, dining, meetings, even at work. I know my current employer allows flip flops to be worn to work, any type of shoe you want to wear and I, myself find them more comfortable than shoving me feet into a fully closed and cramped shoe for 10 hours a day!
So yes, I also wear flip flops everywhere I go and it IS NOT a matter of being lazy as some want to think, it is a “Matter of CHOICE” and I’ll choose a pair of Flip Flops, cheap or otherwise over any other type of shoe because they are more comfortable thany any other type of shoes out there.
Flip Flops are definitely here to stay and stay they will. They are just far too popular to just wither and die off as many “fashion trends” have done in the past and will do so in the future.
So if you don’t like them, that’s your choice, but not the choice of those of us that enjoy the freedom of being as close to barefeet as we can get. Hell, I’ll bet most of the folks that wear Flip Flops would actually prefer barefeet than the shoes, I know I would, but society seems to think we need to wear shoes when we shop for groceries, clothes, etc. So Flip Flops allow us the convience and comfort of being as close to being in our barefeet as possible with all the rules and regulation hype.
Flip Flop Dude in Florida
What is with DCB? There is nothing wrong with girls wearing flip flops any time or any place. You don’t worry that thier a hands are bare and they are body parts just like the feet.
I think a female feet are sexy and should be viewed by the public. If you don’t like it don’t look. That’s a freedom of choice you have. So give the women freedom of choice to wear flip flops if they wish. I know I always enjoy seeing a girls cute feet in flip flops. DCB is a rude prude with a bare feet phobia. Get over it dude.
People seem to forget that prolonged use of wearing flips flops tend to make their feet calloused and gross…especially the heel area. So if you don’t mind your feet aging and looking close to what your grandparents have, wear them all you want!
there is nothing wrong with “girls wearing flip-flops” …some guys are just so idiots
After reading through all of the opinions of these people, I still can’t understand why so many people find flip-flops attractive. I mean, how come people didn’t think it fit to wear them everywhere just five years ago? And now society accepts them. I understand that people don’t want to wear sneakers in the summertime, and that’s fine. So why the heck do people not wear sandals anymore? A lot of them are comfortable, and they keep your feet just as cool as flip-flops, but they look classier.
It’s unfortunate if flip-flops are here to stay, because people don’t look intelligent when you can hear their heels smacking around in pool shoes all day long.
If you are going to spend $75 on a pedicure, then wear some cute sandals– flip-flops are universally unflattering.
I completely agree with DCB and the previous poster.
I’m a 29-year-old single guy, and part of the reason I’m single is because I simply won’t date a woman who wears flip-flops. They look “young” to me–as in “high school.” My time and my money are better spent on a girl with maturity and class.
Not surprisingly, many of these classy girls are already taken. This leads me to believe that most guys are not big fans of the flip-flop craze, but stay silent because in the dating game, girls hold all the cards, and if you want to get some action, you better not criticize anything she wears, no matter how asinine she looks.
Flip-flops were specially invented for the soft sand of the beach. They were never meant to be worn on concrete. There is no give on concrete, no room to shuffle your feet for small distances.
As a result, those who wear flip-flops as everyday shoes risk significant tendon, heel, and ankle damage.
How flip-flops have replaced sandals (and indeed shoes) as non-winter footwear is mind-blowing, but I suspect it is an outgrowth of the sloppy, lazy, and indifferent turn our country has taken.
I know flip-flop lovers will care little what I think and consider me an aberration in our flip-flop loving culture. But you still look like a bunch of slobs.
I disagree with DCB
I work in a super center (grocery/retail) store as a stock person and all I ever see anyone wear are DISGUSTING FLIP FLOPS while shopping for whatever.
Personally I think restaurants and stores should DISALLOW anyone from entering their establishments wearing FLIP FLOPS, they ARE NOT for shopping or going out on the town.
We had an incident not too long ago at where I work and a lady got her foot cut when a glass bottle that SHE KNOCKED OFF the shelf fell and shattered, several shards bounced right onto her foot, if she had been wearing CLOSED SHOES or a classier type sandal she would not have gotten her foot all cut up and probably needed stitches.
This is why FLIP FLOPS SHOULD NOT BE WORN for shopping in ANY SHOPS! Nor should they be worn in restaurants where HOT FOODS could fall on ones foot.
FLIP FLOPS allow TOO MUCH of your foot to be exposed and can create medical problems as a couple other posters have posted here, not to mention your foot has absolutely NO PROTECTION from the above type mishaps.
Oh, the lady tried to sue the store for her medical but she lost the case, the store video showed that #1. she knocked the bottle off the shelf and #2. they WOULD have PAID her medical claims if she would have been wearing shoes that more protected and covered her foot.
It’s just downright STUPID to go out shopping in a store in FLIP FLOPS period. To me this puts you into one of my favorite comedians (Carlos Mencia’s) videos – You’re a DEE DEE DEE! If you don’t know it means STUPID!
And wearing FLIP FLIPS anywhere other than the beach is just that, STUPID!
As an addendum, even the fashion folks say FLIP FLOPS are a FASHION NO NO!
So why aren’t you listening?
Baloney! Girls look very sexy in flip-flops. Wearing flip-flops for girls gives them an “I have freedom” oulook which is very sexy. They can just slip them on and off when they want–very nice. Many, many guys like to see girls wear flip-flops. I’m sorry if you’re not one of them.
I’m putting on my flip flops right now and going out to a club in Tokyo. I think I look good.
I honestly cannot stand flip flops
It’s October and I still see people wearing flip-flops. Christ, I know it’s been kind of warm lately, but come on.
Only in D.C., otherwise known as “the least fashionable city on the East Coast.”
Gotta Say, I agree with all those who think chicks in flip flops are sexy. Down here in Australia, girls get around in them 365 days of the year, its a great summery look… especially it she is hot!!
I have to agree that flip-flops need to stay on the beach and at the park. Not in restaurants, grocery stores OR in Drs. offices.
I’m sorry, but not all sandal or flip-flop wearers don pedicures. And when wearing sandals or flip-flops your feet do get dirty from the street debris. I have seen women in dining areas that the bottom of their feet were dirty! Ugh. Enough to turn my stomach and ruin my dinner.
And the same with grocery shopping. I want sanitary conditions folks when I am buying food.
I remember a time flip-flops were trashy…what happened?
I LOVE FLIP FLOPS AND THATS THAT SO BUTT OFF LOSERS! U CANT STOP ME AND MY AMAZING FLIP FLOP POWER!!!!! :-p
It entirely depends who is wearing them. – It is truly disgusting to see an ugly or fat or old woman wearing flip flops… but if she is young and slim and attractive and has nice feet then she will look fantastic in flip flops wherever she is and what ever the outfit. – More power to hot chicks in flip flops !
To me, women wearing flip flops shows a sign of glamour and sexiness, regardless of the occasion. It’s always a plus when I see a pretty woman with pretty feet wearing them.
No woman over 30 should ever wear flip flops. – For kids and young women they are fine.
Flip flops are the sexiest things a chick can wear on her feet. They enhance every foot and make a girl’s feet look irresistibly sexy, especially when she dangles her feet precariously from her flip flops. The older the flip flops and the thinner and more worn-out, the sexier they are. I like it when girls let their flip flops become paper-thin and it seems like their soles are resting on the ground…also when their long thin toes spill over the front of the flip flop. As for the flip flopping sound…the louder the better… flip flops seem to say “I don’t give a shit and wear what I want…look at my sexy soles and toes and enjoy them!” Sexy feet become even sexier in flip flops…Long live the flip flop!
Depends which president were talking about…
I’ve seen far too many women with some knarly feet that were YOUNG, personally I do not like Flip Flops, Sandals or barefeet on ANY woman, no matter her age. Give me the old days when women dressed professionally and LOOKED DIGNIFIED, now they look like some damn trailer-trash slob or Jerry Springer Reject in the clothes and shoes they wear.
It’s a reat treat when I see a young or even older woman dressed in heels, a nice dress and looks more professional than most of the slobs I see today.
It’s just sickening to some of us that grew up and worked in a time where dressing very nicely or professionally was normal.
Now most offices I visit, even law offices, the women look nasty, have on Flip Flops and “dirty” feet, not very conducive to that type of (what I thought was) a professional environment.
We definitely NEED to bring back CLASS today, but sadly it looks like the NO CLASS/SLOVENLY LOOK is what we’re stuck with. How sad.
Flip Flops are fine for a beach or maybe a walk in a park, but that IS the ONLY PLACES they should be worn period!
You’re a retard.
Girls DO looks hot in flip-flops, as long as they have cute feet.
I’m a guy.
Ladies, if you are going to listen to one of these many different opinions on flip-flops, you may as well listen to a cool, cute guy’s opinion.
First of all, flip-flops make you look comfortable, and carefree, and relaxed, and that is a good thing. They are basically the symbol of being comfortable and not caring. It is pleasing to the eye to see people comfortable and enjoying themselves, especially good looking women. When I see girls/women in flip flops, I think how nice that she is comfortable and carefree and enjoying herself. As far as I am concerned, women should wear them all the time if they want to.
Wearing flip flops shows that you do not care what other people think, which also sends out a cool, relaxed vibe. Not to mention, they feel great. They look good, they are convenient, inexpensive, and fun, enjoyable, sexy and popular. After all, what would a goddess wear, but the most comfortable shoe imaginable? What could be sexier than being a goddess in heavenly comfort not caring what any guy or the rest of the world thinks? You are, after all, getting away with wearing naked footwear.
Except for a few wierdos or people who are up-tight, women can wear flip flops and get away with them scott-free.
You should just enjoy. Besides, every time you wear them you are showing everyone how little you care what their opinion is.
If someone doesnt like flip flops, maybe that is not the type of guy you are interested, so you can enjoy being in your carefree cool world with people who agree with you. You cant please everyone in this world, but if you are wearing flip flops and are carefree, who cares? Those shallow people’s narrow opinions are not your problem.
As women, you have a right to enjoy, and if you want to, you can live in them and wear them every day. Go for it.
If you want to know which kinds I prefer, I like the thin ones on women, cheap ones, ones that look very comfortable. Why not have the people around you comforable and happy and enjoying themselves. It is a very classy move.
Unlike another person who posted, possibly one of the reasons I am single is because I seem to have bad luck finding a girl who wears flip flops nearly all the time. One of the reasons I moved from the Northeast to the Phoenix area was to increase my chances. But I’ve still historically drawn women who aren’t into the flip flop thing, unfortunately. But there is always hope. Overall, my true opinion is that many guys think flip flops are hot and sexy, especially if the woman has reasonably nice looking feet.
I`m a man and totally agree with the “cool (and cute) guy” opinion. Flip flops have been around for ages, they look so sexy on nice girls that there are no other shoes that would compete. And yes, the simply,thin flip flops are the sexiest. Nice feet are a must of course and at the same time, when a girl with beautiful feet wears flip flops it`s exactly the type of shoe that shows the most of these feet and atracts attention. I hate when girls wear closed shoes or pantyhose when it`s warm out there. Sure,some people have a different opinion, but the majority would confirm that flip flops rule!
Lol, you’re all pretty stupid to think this. Guys don’t say it but there are studies that the Foot Fetish, is the most common fetish, more common in guys, and so yes a lot of guys love when girls wear flip flops. About 7/10 guys. The other 3/10 find feet ugly and that’s why they don’t appreciate it. It’s understandable but you can’t just make an assumption based on yourself. As long as a girl has good looking feet, it’s a turn on. Also though I agree women over 30 shouldn’t wear flip flops. Feet are ugly, but only young girls can make feet look good.
Haha, Mr.or Mrs. Anonymous is right that everyone makes assumptions based on his personal preferences. On the other hand you are crazy enough to think that all women above 30 must have ugly feet etc. Well, maybe you are a 13-yr old girl and don`t understand it, but look e.g. at some Granny Award show and tell me if the stars do not wear open sandals barefoot showing off their sexy feet. Well, you can hop around wearing sneakers if you wish, but all the sane people understand, that some girl can have ugly feet at age 15 while some women still have sexy feet at age 45.
Flip flops have to be the most butt ugly footwear ever invented by man. Women look much better in either high heeled sandals, flat strappy sandals or even sneakers than in those crappy shower shoes that seem to be so fashionable nowadays. I guess flip flops are okay at the beach, but anywhere else they look like the shoes of choice of some trailer trash slob. I don’t know what’s more trashy nowadays…flip flops or this obsession with tattoos. But it’s a close race.
I love flip flops but I don’t buy the cheap rubber ones because I wear them almost everyday. I purchase the brand name or with rhinestone like BCBG, Bebe, and I have Havaianas which cost more than BCBG & Bebe. The brand names last a lot longer than the cheap rubber flip flops from Old Navy.
I also make sure that my toes are clean and nicely painted before I wear flip flops.
In addition, I wear the wedge flip flops with 1-2 inches heel so it doesn’t look like I am going to the beach everyday.
I agree with dealink
I’m a dancer.
I wear slaps everywhere.
If I didn’t, I wouldn’t shut up, my feet would be dead.
This is rediculous.
unless you’re going to a 5 star restaraunt on a special occasion, slaps are fine.
and even then, slaps can be workable.
I mean, be classy and get a pair of heels for your wedding.
other than that.
stfuuuuu about it.
Flip-flops = gross.
real men dont wear flip flops
I love to see a woman out and about in a pair of nice leather flip flops.
Flip flops turn me off big time.
Flip flops are absolutely the seciest thing a woman can wear on her feet. Especially in jeans.
Number one, i love how men always LOVE to speak for all men (“Absolutely no guy thinks you look good in them”) even though in these comments there are tons of guys who think otherwise. Number two, guys like this also love to make blanket statements about how shallow women are (“and please don’t say you “don’t care” what guys think. You know you care and we know you care”). So apparently women should just always aspire to look as hot as possible because it’s all we have to offer anyway right? Moron. See this is the same guy who earlier in the article criticized women for spending too much time on getting ready (makeup, hair etc). We spend too much time to try to look good, we’re shallow and stupid. We try to wear something comfortable and take care of ourselves, and we’re just fooling ourselves because deep down all women are just an empty shell of a person. Gosh DCB, I am so sorry that some women take their own comfort in to consideration once in awhile instead of trying their hardest to make you pop a boner every time you see one.
And all that blatant sexism and plain ignorance aside… flip flops? Really? Of all the things you could gripe about.
Oh yeah and good job trying to imitate Maddox ( http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=fashion ). See the difference between you and him is, what he writes has comedic value and makes sense.
Are you guys for real? No wonder there are soo many dissatisfied women in the world.
First thing, there is nothing sexier than a woman with lovley feet (I luv the long slender shapley toes personally).
These feet in flip flops just drive me crazy with passion. Something about the reckless abandon and in your face feet that is soooo goood!!
Seriously, I mourn the loss of bare feet when winter approaches and the ladies cover up one of their greatest assets.
Trust me, I will never flip flop on this one…
I cant believe people actually make an issue about something as small and meaningless as flip flops. Come on people, there are other things in the world to be anal and concerned about….Economy, war, famine, gas prices, etc….
If you’ve noticed , some flip flops now don’t make that obnoxious noise anymore. I can stand them better now, without that noise. That noise even pissed the girls off.
That being said, there is a duality to this issue, and I can barely bring myself to touch it. Us men hate womens’ feet , but love them at the same time. Sure, flip flops or slaps are always tacky, but girls who wear them are going for a certain kind of attention, or are just assholes.
Pretty feet are one thing I wish for in a woman, and if my next woman has pretty feet , I would orally copulate those feet in a New York Minute, if she wished , and most of them do. But a lot of feet are ugly as sin. Feet remind people of sex and personally , I don’t like being reminded that I ‘can’t have sex with that attractive woman who is wearing flip flops’ – seems like just something she should be sharing with her boyfriend, not the general public.
That being said , I also wouldn’t want to date a woman who didn’t have tough, calloused feet from walking barefoot in public all her life, and well pedicured. There’s a time and a place for everything. Society is constantly evolving, and devolving, trying to figure out what makes everybody happy , to get along with the rest, personally I would rather pretty women never wore shoes – just seems more honestly what they want to do.
Maybe we should leave the widespread foot fetish popularity to the girls to decide. Its not our bodies, its the females bodies – like abortion , men should have no say in how a woman takes care of her own health. Men wouldn’t like if people told us how to dress….oh…but they do…men are not allowed to go barefoot…but thats for the best, at this current juncture in human history-How awful and grotesque would that be?
To recap: I don’t really care for flip flops, but depends on what mood I’m in, and who’s wearing them (Brooke Burke, intelligent, beautiful, and wise Model/actress, once said ,”If a man doesn’t like a woman’s feet, he just doesn’t like her.” I find that true.) I would prefer dress slippers(but even that gets old after awhile), but I love a barefoot girl…and it’s none of my business anyway.
Plus, I need to get laid.
also , for Aquatic cultures like Florida, I would practice what I preach , and just be barefoot everywhere , even though I am a man(albeit and attractive man , with ankle bracelets and toe rings) , but no other man can pull off what I pull off. Its different when you are a drop-dead Gorgeous human:)