There are three different times a guy thinks about an individual girl. Each tells a lot about how he feels about her.
1. When he’s not horny. He really cares about her and enjoys her company. If she’s not already his girlfriend, he probably has the intention of making her one in the near future. She has many qualities that he admires and he would hang out with her even if sex wasn’t going to occur. This happens 1% of the time.
2. When he’s horny. If he’s just thinking about her when he’s horny, this means he will only hang out with her if the sex is guaranteed to occur. If sex doesn’t occur, he understands that his time has been completely wasted. He cares about very little, and would not consider making her a girlfriend. This happens 29% of the time.
3. While he’s masturbating. He thinks of her as a receptacle, and nothing more. Her apparent lack of the many qualities he desires makes her fit for his sexual gratification only. After masturbating is complete, the man criticizes himself for even thinking of her. This happens 70% of the time.
Only amateur men telephone girls that fit category three.