Whenever I go out and take a look at my competition, I breathe a sigh of relief. I’m going against guys who excel most at standing still and staring at women, guys who – when it comes to game – simply don’t have their shit together.
There is no excuse for a guy not to keep his game tight – to experiment with the look, niche, and vibe that gets him the most play. By the time he is in his late 20’s, he should have already discovered the most efficient way to get ass based on his unique personality. These same guys will spend dozens of hours on some new work training to be a better project manager, or hundreds of hours getting a business degree to gain an edge. Yet when it comes to women he can’t be bothered to do more than read Maxim, wondering when he’ll meet his plastic beauty. You see him in the bar with his blue-stripped shirt and Abercrombie haircut, reduced to spitting the cliche “What do you do – can I buy you a drink” game to the mediocre girl that is no man’s first choice.
There are some guys out there who are pushing 30 years old and still don’t know how to approach a woman, where to take her on the first date, or how to efficiently escalate to sex. They just don’t have it handled. What have you been doing for the past 10 years? I’ve been in the trenches, molding my game to work based on my look and personality. I know what works and what doesn’t because I put myself out there and tried.
Guys make a huge mistake when they focus on their career as a substitute to learn how to deal with women. The irony is they are career-driven because they eventually want to land a quality woman, but find themselves sitting on cash at 30 with zero ability to talk to them. And unless they are rich or especially good-looking, they’re going to watch in horror as girls they desire go after that hairy man with horrible style. He painstakingly took the time to figure out that things like body hair, clothing, and money doesn’t matter… for him, anyway.