WHERE GETTING AN ERECTION IN PUBLIC IS ACCEPTABLE

My entire game used to be dance floor grinding. I was that guy that would go to the loudest, cheesiest clubs and rub my crotch on a girl’s ass. It was easier than making conversation and a quick way to hook up. I met a lot of girls like this, though none of them really stick out in my mind today.

The day my game changed forever was in Atlantic City around Christmas time 2002. My friend and I lost our money early and roamed through the casino floor waiting for Trump’s Casbah Club to open. We see two cute girls walk by and sit by the slot machines. I was pushed to approach them but I resisted, “What am I going to say?” My friend replied, “Why can’t you walk up to a girl like a normal person and talk to her?” Even though he was projecting his own feelings, he had a damn good point.

It’s not even three years later and I hate dance floor game. I hate going to a club where I have to yell in someone’s ear just to say hi. I hate how the guys trying desperately to dance with a girl – any girl – remind me of how lame I used to be. And I hate dancing to music I don’t like. While dancing is still fun, checking out the dance moves of a girl I like up-close doesn’t give me any idea on what she’s like. I became a pro at getting numbers of girls I was incompatible with.

I think it’s normal for guys to go through a leg humping phase in their early twenties. It grounds them and the rejection builds confidence. But I still wonder about that 35 year old in the club who still humps girls. Doesn’t he know that at his age he should be buying girls drinks and flashing his BMW key?

18 thoughts on “WHERE GETTING AN ERECTION IN PUBLIC IS ACCEPTABLE

  1. Andy

    I’ve noticed DCB is throwing out how you need money to be noticed these days. I’d be interested in a post DCB about how you feel about money and women.

    Are you saying that if you hypothetically wanted to increase your chances with women at this point it would be more effective to work on career/wealth than game?

  2. John B

    buying girls drinks? big NO. Flashing BMW keys? big YES.

    “Are you saying that if you hypothetically wanted to increase your chances with women at this point it would be more effective to work on career/wealth than game?”

    You have to understand that women are way into what a man does for living, and how much he makes. If you can some how “show” that you have a lot of money without actually spending any, then you’ll be able to get virtually any woman you want. Once a woman finds out that you’re an investment banker, doctor, lawyer, etc. you’re already halfway in. you next just have to learn how to seal the deal.

  3. CruelHazel

    What you show, what you do, it depends on the girl you’re trying to attract. Go to the places and and do the things that attract the kind of girls you like. Different bait and different lakes until you find the one that suits you, I guess. Some girls aren’t going to be as impressed with your BMW as they will with your conversation.
    But congrats on graduating past the dance floor grind. I wish all guys could figure it out as quickly as youd did.

  4. Liz

    Twin huh? Boy or girl? I’m making a reference to the very humorous she-dcb post, that was classic… 🙂

  5. nabeel

    I dont want girls who go after guys just because they have a BMW. that only breeds materialism… and I prefer girls who know that there is so much more to life than a BMW and a fat wallet.

  6. not a sicko

    Rubbing your crotch on a girl’s ass is sick and it’s sexual assault at the very least. While some (but not all) men might enjoy a woman doing that to them, most women don’t – if they act like they do, it’s only cos they don’t want to cause a scene or cos they’re drunk, NOT cos they like it

  7. Anonymous

    You’re 26 and think that men at 35 should be using wealth to lure women?

    If all he wants is a piece of ass, that works.

    The answer lies in tandem with the answer to this question: “What do you really want?”

  8. hey u

    IS IT NORMAL THAT IM GETTIN AN ERECTION EVERY TIME I SEE MY HOT HIGH SCHOOOL TEACHER. SOME TIMES I GO TO THE BATHROOM AND MASTURBATE. ONE TIME I GOT AN ERECTION BUT I DIDNT EVEN KNOW SO THEN I WENT UP 2 MY TEACHER AND SHE KEPT ON LOOKING AT MY PENIS. WHEN I REALIZED THIS FOR SOME REASON I GOT EVEN HARDER. MY TEACHER HAS THE NICEST BOOBS EVER. WHEN SHE BENDS DOWN I ALWAYS LOOK DOWN HER SHIRT. ONE TIME SHE WORE THIS BUTTON UP SHIRT, BUT SHE ONLY BUTTONED UP LIKE 2 OF THEM. I WENT UP 2 ASK HER A QUESTION AND WHEN I GOT UP THERE SHE MASHED HER BOOBS TOGETHER I WAS LOOKING DOWN HER SHIRT THE WHOLE TIME. SOMETIMES I WONDER WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF I JUST REACH OUT AND TOUCH THEM?

  9. Dave The Rave

    IS IT NORMAL THAT IM GETTIN AN ERECTION EVERY TIME I SEE MY HOT HIGH SCHOOOL TEACHER. SOME TIMES I GO TO THE BATHROOM AND MASTURBATE. ONE TIME I GOT AN ERECTION BUT I DIDNT EVEN KNOW SO THEN I WENT UP 2 MY TEACHER AND SHE KEPT ON LOOKING AT MY PENIS. WHEN I REALIZED THIS FOR SOME REASON I GOT EVEN HARDER. MY TEACHER HAS THE NICEST BOOBS EVER. WHEN SHE BENDS DOWN I ALWAYS LOOK DOWN HER SHIRT. ONE TIME SHE WORE THIS BUTTON UP SHIRT, BUT SHE ONLY BUTTONED UP LIKE 2 OF THEM. I WENT UP 2 ASK HER A QUESTION AND WHEN I GOT UP THERE SHE MASHED HER BOOBS TOGETHER I WAS LOOKING DOWN HER SHIRT THE WHOLE TIME. SOMETIMES I WONDER WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF I JUST REACH OUT AND TOUCH THEM?

    Yeah it’s normal ..some people get turned on easier than others some can control it some cant just the way it is. Just don’t go wild and start feeling your teacher up ..you’ll be the laughing stock of the school plus you might get expelled or something.

  10. Anonymous

    dude i have a girl friend and she has reg sized boobs but thts notwhat im talking about some times when my ad/hd kicks in she pulls her pants down and it always stops me dead in my tracks lol. she has no forrest

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